How do I file a Request for Order (RFO) to ask the court to make decisions on any issue in my family law case?

To file a Request for Order (RFO), you must complete specific court forms, file them with the court clerk, and have the other party in your case legally served with the documents. Here is how to file an RFO to ask the court for orders in your California family law case: Step 1: Obtain and Complete the Required Forms You must fill out the Request for Order (form FL-300). On this form, you will specify what you are asking the court to decide (e.g., child custody, spousal support). You must also attach a declaration (form MC-030) explaining the facts that support your request. If your request involves financial issues like child or spousal support, you must also complete an Income and Expense Declaration (form FL-150). You can find these forms at your local courthouse or on the California Courts website. Step 2: Make Copies of Your Forms After completing all necessary forms, make at least two copies of everything. You will need the original for the court, one copy to serve on the other party, and one copy for your own records. Step 3: File Your Forms with the Court Clerk Take your original forms and the copies to the clerk's office at the courthouse where your case is filed. You will have to pay a filing fee unless you qualify for a fee waiver (form FW-001). The clerk will keep the original, stamp your copies with a "Filed" stamp, and assign you a hearing date, time, and location. Step 4: Serve the Other Party You must have another adult (someone 18 or older who is not you) serve a copy of the filed RFO papers on the other party. This must be done at least 16 court days before your hearing date. After service is complete, the server must fill out and sign a Proof of Service form (like FL-330 or FL-335), which you must then file with the court clerk before your hearing. Important considerations: The other party has the right to file a Responsive Declaration (form FL-320) at least 9 court days before the hearing. Be sure to check your court's local rules, as they may have additional requirements. If you have a true emergency, you may be able to ask for an emergency order (also called an "ex parte" request), which is a different and faster process. Note: Deadlines are critical. If you do not serve the other party correctly or on time, the court may cancel your hearing. The process can be complex, and any errors can delay your case. This is general information and does not constitute legal advice. For complex situations, you should consult with a qualified California attorney to ensure your rights are protected.