How do I prepare and file a response if a request for a Domestic Violence Restraining Order has been filed against me?

To respond to a Request for a Domestic Violence Restraining Order, you must complete and file a specific response form with the court and have it legally served on the other party before your court hearing. Here are the steps to follow: Step 1: Read All Documents Immediately Carefully review every document you were served. Pay close attention to the date, time, and location of your court hearing listed on Form DV-109, Notice of Court Hearing. You must also obey all orders listed on Form DV-110, Temporary Restraining Order (TRO), until the hearing. Violating the TRO can result in your arrest. Step 2: Complete Your Response Form Fill out Form DV-120, Response to Request for Domestic Violence Restraining Order. You can get this form from the court clerk or download it from the California Courts website. State your side of the story clearly and truthfully. Respond to the specific allegations made against you and explain why you agree or disagree with each requested order. Step 3: File Your Response with the Court Make at least two copies of your completed DV-120 form. Take the original and the copies to the court clerk's office at the courthouse listed on your papers. The clerk will stamp your forms and keep the original. There is no fee to file this response. Step 4: Serve the Other Party You cannot serve the papers yourself. Arrange for someone else who is at least 18 years old and not a party to the case to hand-deliver or mail a copy of your filed DV-120 to the person who filed against you. The server must then fill out and sign Form DV-250, Proof of Service by Mail, or another appropriate proof of service form. File the completed proof of service with the court clerk before your hearing. Step 5: Prepare for Your Hearing Gather any evidence that supports your case, such as emails, text messages, photos, or police reports. You can also bring witnesses to testify. Organize your evidence and be prepared to present it to the judge. Important considerations: The consequences of a restraining order are serious and can affect child custody, your ability to own a firearm, and your immigration status. You must attend the hearing; if you do not, the judge can make orders against you without hearing your side. Note: Lying on your court forms or in your testimony is perjury, which is a crime. You must be completely honest. This is general information and does not constitute legal advice. For complex situations or if you are concerned about the consequences, you should consult with a qualified California attorney.