What is the process for the mandatory Child Custody Recommending Counseling (mediation) in California?

Child Custody Recommending Counseling (CCRC) is a mandatory process where a court-appointed counselor helps parents create a parenting plan; if they cannot agree, the counselor makes a recommendation to the judge. This process is required before the court will make custody or visitation orders. Here is the general process: Step 1: File for Court Orders The process begins when you or the other parent files a Request for Order (Form FL-300) with the family court, asking for custody and visitation orders. When the court sets a hearing date, it will also order both parents to participate in CCRC through the county's Family Court Services (FCS) office. Step 2: Schedule Your CCRC Appointment After filing, you must schedule your CCRC session. Some counties automatically schedule it and mail you a notice, while others require you to call the FCS office to make an appointment. This must be completed before your scheduled court hearing. Check your local court’s website or the paperwork from the clerk for specific instructions. Step 3: Prepare for Your Session Prepare a proposed parenting plan that details weekdays, weekends, holidays, and school breaks. Focus on the child’s best interest, considering their health, safety, and welfare. Many counties require you to complete an intake form or watch an online orientation video before your session. Step 4: Attend the CCRC Session You and the other parent will meet with a neutral counselor. Attorneys do not attend this session. The goal is to facilitate an agreement. If there are valid allegations of domestic violence, you can request to meet with the counselor separately from the other parent. Step 5: Review the Outcome and Report If you reach an agreement, the counselor will write it up for the judge to sign, making it a court order. If you cannot agree, the counselor will write a confidential report for the judge that includes their recommendations for a parenting plan. You and the other parent will receive a copy of this report before your court hearing, giving you time to review it. Important Details and Nuances: The counselor's recommendation carries significant weight with the judge, so take this process very seriously. The focus of the discussion must always be on the child's best interests, not the parents' disagreements. Procedures vary slightly by county, so always check the specific rules for the county where your case is filed. Warnings and Limitations: Do not miss your scheduled CCRC appointment, as it can negatively impact your case. While the counselor's recommendation is not binding, judges often follow it. Remain calm, reasonable, and child-focused during your session. This is general information and does not constitute legal advice. For complex situations, especially those involving domestic violence or move-away requests, consult with a qualified California attorney.